Today, I'll start with the first outfit I wore. First off, I did not see the outfit until the morning of the event. Among the Yoruba people, apparently, the grooms family is responsible for providing all that the bride wears that day. I use the word apparently because during the course of our traditional wedding coming together, there were many different opinions and some of my family felt it was their responsibility to dress me as I should come out in my own clothes as I was not married yet. The issues were resolved, and I wore the clothes provided by the K's family.
Since I hadn't seen the outfit, I had to rely on my sis-in-laws to describe the colours to me so I could pick the shoes and bag I would carry.
Jewellery - Coral beads known as Iyun Yoruba. The jewellery was custom made by Cephas Jewelers in Lagos - Touche Plaza, 25B Admiralty Way, Lekki, Lagos - 08029050775, 0818216655. My mom together with the owner of the store came up with the design and I didn't see until the week of the ceremony when I arrived in Lagos.
My make-up was done by the fabulous Banke Meshida Lawal; This was one of non-negotiable's. She also tied my head-tie and iro as well. I always knew I wanted her to do my make-up so when the traditional wedding was being planned, I left everything to my mom except make-up and my photographer. She did ask for my input on other stuff but I did not actively make the decisions.
Kola and I got our shoes from a shop in London called Ivory, they are located on Bond Street down the street from Pronovias shop there, and my clutch was from a friend - Yuwa who sells accessories - Sorrela.
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another view of our outfits |
Kola's outfit was sort of a tribute to his dad. His father passed away in January of 2006 and to honour him, Kola wore his fathers own clothes and the alaari cloth I had was actually custom designed to match. The only new items Kola wore was the white buba (his top) and his shoes. He also wore coral beads as well...
I love this picture of KOK |
Complete Attire |
All the photographs are by Enimien Etomi Inegbedion, our fantastic photographer. My other non-negotiable vendor for my wedding. She was amazing !! She will be doing a photo-booth at the wedding in Malta - I can't wait :) She was assisted by Lanre Balogun of Libran Eye.
All photographs by Enimien Etomi Photography
The pictures are great. You looked gorgeous, and I love the outfit!
ReplyDeleteYay Myne !! Thanks for the compliments :)
ReplyDeleteI finally downloaded your book on my kindle reader - the one about Kevwe and Efe - Awesome so far... I love the back and forth between the flashbacks and present time...
I think the idea of the groom's family providing your outfit is Ondo tradition. Im yoruba too and where I'm from, the bride's family buys the clothes for them both. Infact the bride and her mum are expected to shop for the clothes together.
ReplyDeleteI think its significant that KOK wore his pop's clothes, thats a remarkable way to honour him - very thoughtful
beautiful pictures. wow!congrats
ReplyDeletePls how much does Banke's services cost dolchic@gmail.com
Stunning! U looked so wonderful!
ReplyDeleteAbout who makes the engagement attires, there seems to be lots of opinions on this issue. My husband's family provided what we both wore. Although the idea was for my family to pay my share but MIL refused to collect it. Theres lots of confusion on whose family does what but i think if both family have a cordial rel, it makes it easy.